5 weeks 5 days @ Dr Hii's Women Clinic
First time meeting this little one. So tiny, look like an embryo. Mixed feeling of happiness and loneliness...
Single moms out there going through this, I feel you. At the clinic, you will feel a strike of loneliness, wishing the father of this little one was there to see what you both created. Especially when you see other mummies coming into the clinic with their husbands, in couples..... And that's what makes you feel lonelier and upset.
STOP right there. Listen. If a guy is heartless enough to walk away after he impregnated you, he's not worth thinking about. Any man with a heart in this world would know that a pregnant woman is someone who needs the man the MOST. So if he is inhuman and irresponsible to abandoned the cause of what he did, then you and your little one will definitely be better off without this kind of beast. Your child needs a loving, caring, supportive and responsible father, not a heartless, inhuman and irresponsible one. Your child will grow up into a better person without a father like this. So STOP thinking about him, wipe those tears, be strong for your little one that needs you the most. Because he/she is ONLY left with you, mummy. Stress will affect your baby growth, so be happy, even if you aren't.
Tell yourself, you HAVE TO be happy. Happy Mom = Happy child
And remember, you are never alone. You have this little one inside you, yea? It is keeping you accompanied everyday, every second. So even if you don't have a husband to go to the gynae with you or whatsoever, it's okay. You have your little one! And now you have to be strong for it.
However, if you are still feeling down or lonely going to the gynae alone, ask a good friend or family member to go with you! It will keep your sense of loneliness away. Don't be afraid to ask.
Be strong mummy.
Total damage: S$224.70 (Consultation + ultrasound scan)
For sure. I walked the journey alone, had the usual ups and down, especially when I was fearful of the unknown and of course the long drawn battle of hoping that the child's father would come back some day. But 3 years passed and it has been highly rewarding but challenging on Fathers' day every year. Tell your child that she/he will have all the love from you and to grow up to be a useful person and serve humanity. 3 years on, the father had better not come back anymore, we have moved on comfortably without him and my child will be a better person without him. A man who is indecisive and heartless, will only drag you down and prevent your child and you from finding happiness. Stay strong, and positive. Single parenting is great, freedom in almost every aspects, including how you wish to raise your precious child, and being our child's first BFF!
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